Why Your child will not Listen to your speech? You've tried reason, you are trying to punish, you've tried to bribe, you've tried humor - and no results we got? Why this happens in your child?
Here are 5 Ways to talk to your child.
1. Listen to your child. No matter how significant they are small or big problem, it is very important to them. As an adult, it's hard to overcome our own problems and just listen, but to do or your child will continue to be one problem. When you listen to your child, you validate their importance. Ask your child how their day went, and really listen. Is there something else happening? Whether your child is harassed at school and are afraid or ashamed to talk about it? If he is, you need to make your child feel safe with you, then he can take it. If you want your child to listen to you, you need to listen to your child.
2. Seeing their facial expressions. Often they'll tell you what they want with facial expressions. Why did he pouted when his sister walked in the room? Why does she cry when her sister was playing with other people. There is a big clue there. You should not assume he's pouting because he was uneasy with his sister - he might want something from him and not knowing exactly what it is and sullen because he felt out of sorts about "it." Put yourself in their boots. As they talk with you, whether you respond to love and concern in your voice? Or are you always short, brief and condescending. Think about how you want to talk with, and respond in the form. Not only your children admire you, they are your mirror. If you see the quality in it that you do not like, think about where they learn, and change yourself.
3. Let them make decisions. How often do you make decisions for them? You decide what they eat, what they wear, what they are doing OK, ...... so important they were guided, but once you teach them the difference, giving them some healthy choices. Take him to the library or bookstore and let him choose 5 books to read. You will be surprised to learn what she's interested
4. Make sure they eat healthy foods. Are their snacks or potato snack or an apple? Most kids would choose a snack is unhealthy snack foods. In fact do not buy the junk food, and allow them to go into ice chests they want for the apples, baton carrots and cheese, boiled eggs, or a small handful of nuts. Keep lots of pure water bottle in hand. Make sure they eat healthy breakfast that has protein and keep sugar intake low. No sugar ladened cereal for breakfast - give them oatmeal with peaches in it instead. Leave them alone to make fruit smoothies in the morning. Let them cut fruits and vegetables. With your supervision, they will learn to love to eat healthy. And what if they make a mess? You do not need to worry invite your children to learn to wash and arrange the plates that had they used to eat.
5. He will not clean her room or her homework? He always procrastinate? Do not just command, 'go to clean your room! " or "do your homework!" When was the last time you offered to help your child to clean his room? Make a game out. "Come Budi, let's see how many frogs worms we find in your closet." Or how about this, "Wati, show me some homework you - let's see what you're doing." Often, homework children may be challenging for you. Confess! Ask your child to teach you! When the students become teachers, they learn them well. And you love your child. When you show even the smallest amount of interest in what they do, they will excel.
Time is the best gift you can give your child. And with time comes better understanding, too. You can spend a few minutes now interact with your child, but will pay in the long run when your children become happy, healthy and successful, and independent.
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